Did you ever fully fall out of love? Or does that love remain even if it’s the slightest bit? I swear it’s like memories won’t allow you to completely let go or forget.
The issue is not falling out of love or staying in it. For me my ex’s are a part of me so they are not something to get over. They are people, stories, memories as you say that one must figure out how to successfully incorporate into one’s life. It’s like rearranging furniture rather than completely redecorating. What was once the center piece in the living room might now be placed on a wall in the bathroom, or on a desk in the office, or maybe even in a box in the attic. But you never throw it out wholesale. That seems to me a bit unhealthy. (Alysia Harris’ response)